Saturday, January 26, 2013

Writing your own life into story

A Year of Writing Dangerously: 365 Days of Inspiration and Encouragement
Book cover from Amazon.com


Today I did something I should do much more often - I took a class. It was called Writing Your Life Into Story given by Barbara Abercrombie, a writing teacher at UCLA who has written and published a gazillion books. Well, quite a few anyway; I think fourteen. She has written a new book called A Year of Writing Dangerously, and I bought it, of course. That was the price of the workshop.

It was well worth the time (3 hours) and the price ($16.95) and the effort (a drive from Oakland across the San Rafael Bridge to Corte Madera on a gorgeous sunny morning with the Bay all sparkling and blue). I've been writing pieces of my life for several years, partly for therapy and partly so the things I remember don't disappear with me, so I was especially interested in the subject. At the same time, Barbara reminded me of the joy of writing, and how it doesn't need to be a tiresome over-wrought thing. One of her mantras is: Just get out of your own way and write. Amen.

The class was held at Book Passages in Corte Madera, in Marin County. What a gorgeous bookstore! What a pleasure to be there! Of course I wanted to buy all the books, but I'm on a bit of an austerity tear at the moment, what with income and property taxes coming up, plus a bit of expensive dental surgery. Nevertheless, I feasted my eyes and perked my brain, and now I have Barbara's book to enjoy.

Barbara Abercrombie's blog site is: http://writingtime.typepad.com/.  I expect to come across more pearls of wisdom there too. She was just delightful.

Wednesday, January 23, 2013

Planting a winter garden

 
All it took was a few days of sunshine and mild temperatures, and I was down at the neighborhood Ace nursery buying up baby vegetables. We're so lucky in northern California - many vegetables grow through the winter, including this year a crazy cherry tomato that's still going strong in late January (this has never happened in my garden before!).
 
 
If you look closely you will see yellow flowers even, signalling yet more tomatoes to come. Amazing! Well, that's unusual.
 
The vegetables that usually grow well in our climate in winter are of the cabbage family -cabbages, cauliflower, broccoli - as well as beets and lettuces, and other leafy things like kale and chard. All are yummy!
 
I bought beets and arugula for the back yard, which doesn't get much winter sun but is also protected from the most "extreme" cold by the house.
 
Just a comment about "extreme" cold: I'm originally from Minnesota and we don't have anything here in coastal California that even approaches Extreme Cold, so you're probably laughing if you happen to be in a climate where REAL cold happens. Believe me, I haven't forgotten.
 
Here are the sweet new little beets and arugula:
 

 















And Nero (a.k.a. Pookie-Boo) guarding an already maturing cabbage:


 


 For the front yard, where the best sun is, I got rainbow chard, cauliflowers, and broccolini, which I planted in pots...easier to water if we don't get rain, and easier to defend from hungry spring snails.
 
Baby rainbow chard

Broccolini all gathered in a pot

Snowball cauliflower YUM!
Aren't they sweet? And, mmm, are they ever going to be good to eat! I think that rhymes. Sort of.
 
The temperature has dipped back into the low 50s today, and the sky is overcast with drops of rain spitting here and there, so it looks like our few days of warmth are over for now. Every time I look at my new little vegetables, though, bravely standing up in their pretty pots, I know Spring is coming. Yay!!
 
 

Thursday, January 17, 2013

The Dart Board Bib

Once in awhile you have to do something solely for your honey. My boyfriend Wayne likes to play darts. Let's change that - he LOVES to play darts. So, we looked for a good place in our home or yard to mount a dart board.

We live on a hill. Normally it's a good thing (floods, views, all that). But it's not great for darts. There's nowhere outside where there's a long enough piece of level ground to mount a dart board. So we looked inside, and we found the perfect place: the back of the door in a little hallway between the living room and the kitchen. Here's the dart board installed on the door:



And here's The Problem: As you can see, the door is made of wonderful beautiful hardwood, like all the doors in our craftsman home. So, if a darts player misses, God forbid, the dart goes into the door. This is not a problem for Wayne, who is the quality of darts player who does not miss the target. But for me? Not so much. Before we realized the extent of The Problem, I had already sunk several darts into our gorgeous door. Drat.

Obviously something had to be done. I envisioned a bib, like the kind you'd put on a baby to ward off all the food and dribble that naturally flows toward his chest. And I figured I could just hang the bib on the dart board like you'd hang a bib on a baby's neck, and it would stay put if it was stiff enough.

First I looked through my stash of fabrics to find something stiff and tough enough to repel a sharp dart. Last year I made tree skirts for Christmas gifts, and I had some leftover canvas and cotton batting. They could be used, although they were both light colored and wouldn't look so great on the door. I could use the canvas on the back of the bib.Then I found a piece of heavy dark blue denim and decided that would be unobtrusive enough for the front, and masculine enough for Wayne.

I made a pattern by taping a big piece of paper to the door over the dart board and tracing out the circle where the board was. Here's the pattern as I used it to cut out a double layer of the cotton batting stuffing for the bib:


Then I used the pattern and fabric folded in half to cut out the front and back of the bib, putting the fold of the pattern on the fold of fabric. I added 1/2 inch to all edges including the inner circle when I cut these two pieces, to allow for seams.




Using the sewing machine, I sewed a 1/2 inch hem all the way around the outside and around the inner circle of the canvas backing. Then I laid the batting on the inside surface of the back, matching all the edges, and layered the denim front over it all, pinning the denim in a 1/2 inch overlay to enclose the edge of the batting all the way around all the edges, including the inner circle. I sewed all the edges together with a 1/4 inch topstitch, dark blue thread on the top and white thread on the bobbin. It worked great, and here's the result:


Yay! It's a dart board bib, and even if you purposely miss the dart board, the dart doesn't go into the wood of the door. Instead it drops to the floor and sticks in the hardwood floor. Drat. Wayne loves it though, and that's what matters.


Tuesday, January 8, 2013

Imagine ME as your Christmas present!

Well, ha-ha, not exactly. But my friend Lee has given my skills as a bartender to her son-in-law as a Christmas gift. Here's how it happened.

Brian asked for a good bar book for Christmas, so he could learn to make his favorite vodka cocktails. Lee thought it would be a better idea to have a bona-fide bartender (me) teach him how to make the drinks, and then she'd make dinner and we'd all have a party. What a great idea!

It's going to happen later this month. Here's the "lesson plan":


Classic Vodka Cocktails 


                                                                                      
          Vodka Martini 
          Cosmopolitan
          Lemon Drop 
          Vodka Gimlet 
          Madras 
          Cape Cod 
          Greyhound and Salty Dog 
          Bloody Mary 
          Kamakazi 
          Vodka Sour 
          Vodka Collins
 

How fun is that?! As I envision it, we'll all gather round while Brian and I make drinks. Of course, there are so many drinks we'd have to check in at ER if we drank them all. Instead we'll use drink straws to take "bartender sips" of each drink, and then decide what we want to drink more of. At the end, I'll give him a hand-made book of recipes for these drinks, and we'll eat Lee's delicious dinner (she's a great cook, as well as an inspired mother-in-law).

I'll let you know how it goes, and even pass along some of the drink recipes that aren't already here on my blog under The Best Cocktails over on the right-hand side.

Cheers!

Wednesday, January 2, 2013

I resolve . . .

Got resolutions? I do! You're probably dying to know my New Year's resolutions for 2013. Well, here they are:

1. Do something physical every day, even if it's just walking (briskly!) for 20 or 30 minutes. Today I went to the gym and worked out. Of course most of the gazillion people at the gym today won't be there next month, or the month after. I will, some days. And I love yoga, so I'll be there too, mellowing out my mind and stretching my body. I'm lucky, my work bartending is physical...standing on my feet for hours, lifting cases of booze, pushing carts full of beer, and all that, so on a day when I'm working I can give myself a little break. Or not.

2. Erase wrinkles from my face instantly by smiling more. It's true! Just look in the mirror and try it. Not to mention, smiling changes your brain chemistry...did you know that? I am definitely going to be smiling more in 2013.

3. Drink more water. OK, wine does not substitute for water, and that's the mistake I've been making. :-) The truth is I don't get enough water, so it makes sense that if I drink more water during the day, I can continue to have my red wine at night. Yeah!

I like to keep things simple, and I'm capping off my resolutions at three. Maybe that'll make them easy to keep.

Happy New Year!!